I just installed Intense Debate Comments app which will allow replies directly with one on one - which is very handy - but it also wiped out all my old comments ( which makes me little sad! ) but I'm sure the future comments will make up for it!
Don't intimidated by the fancier look of it ;) it's still "anyone can comment", but you can also log in with Wordpress if you want.
I still keep my view on replying to all comments I receive, that has not changed.
Now back to reading Kiss of Night!